Showing posts with label Bits and Thoughts ~ 生活琐碎. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Bits and Thoughts ~ 生活琐碎. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Prepared for 2011?

Is only another 3 days to end year 2010, and start a new year for 2011. Are you prepared? Whats your 2011 resolution?

I already have few in my mind... =)

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Happy Birthday to Tam !

Happy Birthday to Tam!

Today is your Birthday and I sincerely wishing you:

  • Having a Good Year
  • Got a Good Job
  • Earning a lot of Money
and most important

BE HAPPY EVERYDAY !!


Enjoy your day ya ~ Happy Birthday to you Ah Hong ~ ^^

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

我要相信,好心有好报

我要相信,好心有好报,简简单单就好,最起码我对得起自己,对得起爱我的家人朋友 (^.^)6

之所以今天会有以上的感触,是因为今天放工后,我到超市买了很四袋的家里用品,又多又重,令我拿得很勉强。到了我的公寓时,因为都必须刷过access card我才能进门口,但手上的东西太多了,而且都是蛋呀,玻璃瓶啊之类的东西,所以我很勉强的要从包包里找出我的access card。幸好有个guard当时看我拿得那么辛苦,所以就帮我开了门。
(现声明,这里的guard没那么容易帮人家开门的哦,要不你就得记得随身戴着access card,要不你就得站在那儿等运到,等到有人开门时才跟着一起出去)
所以今天有这么的招待是难得一见的事哦,也许再加上平日我都会更guard打个招呼,所以才能修来今天的招待吧 =P

然后当我要上电梯时,也遇到了好心人帮我按电梯,帮我先按好我要上的那一楼,真是太谢谢了!

也许以上所说的,都是微不足道的事情,但这些小小的举动也足以让我感到很感动了=)

所以说啊,不要放弃相信好心有好报,平日好好的对待身边的每一个人,总有一天你会得到这些小小的惊喜哦!

Sunday, October 11, 2009

Please feel free to visit http://bgal-beegal.blogspot.com/

Hallo hallo ~ It has been so long long long time i never update my blog... already three months ~ phew...

Well, recently busy with my works, and already worked for almost three months. Well, lots of problems happen, but i guess will get thru it ...

Anyway, i would like to congratz my fren Elvina, who started her online business recently, selling products like bracelet, necklack, earing, ring... I tried a lot of the products and really quite good quality with reasonable price (at least is cheaper than wat we can get outside and with better qualilty).

This is her link http://bgal-beegal.blogspot.com/ Please feel free to drop by and have a look.

Just to share ^^

I will start updating my blog again, just hopefully that my connection doesn't get worst everynight after i back from work, since that is the only time i can update my blog...

See ya, love ya ...

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Is this called donation ?

After finished blogging bout the sales girl story just now, i suddenly recall another case while i was in KL.

Few months ago, there was a day i was rushing to uni to pass up my thesis. I need to pass by the LRT station so that i can take the cross over and get a taxi to the uni. Just when i reached the LRT station, there came a girl to talk to me saying that " hi, we are doing a recycle campaign............. " I stopped my foot step since the girl stop me with a paper on her hand, and she told me is for recycle campaign and therefore i just stop and take the paper that she passed to me. There was only simple message on the paper informing that the time, date and venue for the recycle campaign and some contact info so that we can call them to collect recycle stuffs. Then i told her, "ok thanks, anything i will contact this number " and just when i wanted to continue walking, she came and stop me again, trying to probe me with her questions, asked things like " how old are u ? u look very young, doesn't seems as your real age........ " " What you studying now ? wow....not bad ..... is good that u have the chance to study ...... " etc.... since i tot she was just asking me politely and so i answered her with patient. But after tat, she try to ask me to do some donation for the old folks home.

Only i realised that, from the beginning, everything was under her control. I mean, at first, she tried to stop me by giving me leaflet about recycle campaign, since i know that it has nothing to do with donation or sales or questionaire and whatever, i just stop and take the leaflet and go. And just when i started to go, she came to talk with me nicely and friendly as if i am a new fren of her and after she understood my background, she started to reveal her ownselve for what they are actually doing.

I didn't want to listen bout the donation stuffs since i was really in a rush and i tell her "is ok, thanks. ..... " but she never wan to give up and keep talking alot with me. I keep telling her that i am really in rush to pass up my thesis and i really need to go and then she keep saying that, please help to donate. I thought ok just to give her mayb one or two ringgit just to get rid of her since it was a donation and she did mention that it was a free-donation, u can donate any amount that u wanted to. So i tell her " Ok, i can donate any amount right ? " and she says yes and she shows me that they will give me a small gift, just as i am actually buying an item from them with any amount. I didn't know wat is inside the packet but just when i started to nod my head n say ok, she starts to show me their receipt, saying that normally ppl will donate this amount, and at the same time showed me the receipt with people donating "Rm 40, Rm 50 ..... etc " I was " wow........." and say i will donate a little onli, then she tells me that i need to donate at least Rm 10 . I was quite pissed off actually cz at first she told me i can donate any amount that i like, i asked "you said i can donate any amount right" and she start to say " yes, but they really need help, so small amount couldn't help much, at least RM 10 will really help out" and at the same time showing me that normally people will donate around RM 40, RM 50 ...... I dun like it, i dun like donation by this way because donation is by mean of charity, is doesn't matter how much i wan to give and supposed that they need to accept any amount that i wanted to give since it is called DONATION. It supposed to be by sincerity and not by forced.

I am really angry to waste the time with her and i straight away tell her, i dun wan, she still holding me back but i insisted that i dun wan to donate and walk away ...... Long long time before i really exposed to life at KL, i like to donate when i see beggars on the street or beggars that came to ask for money. It was because they wont ask for any amount, you can give any amount that you are able to just to help them out. But just when i started to live in KL, i found that beggars are all around the streets, initially i did give donation to the beggars but after that, no more, since i myself do not have so much money to keep on do donation, really sorry for that. Also, after my lifes in KL, only i know that there are lots of cheaters around actually. Some of the beggars are controlled by syndicate to beg for many for them. Some of the beggars are actually just a normal ppl who comes out to cheat money by using other's sympathy.

Well, not that i am discriminating people like this, just that all these are the facts, we can read from the newspaper everyday that how these people cheat other's money, how those syndicate asking for donation by fooling around human's sympathy. Therefore, normally when people come to ask for donation, i will ask for their contact so that next time when i really have the ability, i will go do the donation straight to their center. Not that i am acting cruel, just that there are really too many cheating cases around, and this is the only way that i can do to protect myself from being cheated.

Still, when i really see beggars that especially handicap beggars, i will somehow just give a very small amount of donation. Although there are stil lots of cheaters around, but i think there is still a part of people that really need help, and really have no choice but to beg for money. Anyway, people that are so healthy with their hands, legs, eyes, nose, mouth, ears, but stil come to beg, i will somehow ignore them because you should go find a proper job to earn your own money, but not in this way.

A sales story today

Went to have char kuey teow with mum and dad just now and somehow saw an interesting scene in front of me....

I was eating my char kuey teow and suddenly i heard a gal talking loudly to an indian. Well, she is a chinese gal, who bring some stuffs to walk around and to sell around. She went to an indian guy who was eating with his fren and start to promote her stuffs. I didn't notice at first, until she suddenly keep repeating the same sentence very loudly saying tat "tak ada sample dah, ini saya baru buka punya......tengok, baru buka, tak ada sample dah....... " I guess, she was promoting a shaver to the indian guy and then he was asking for sample and she actually showed a sample which she open from the packet, but dunno wat happen, the indian guys stil wan to see more sample or wat.... i am not sure. Anyway, after some time, the guy finally buy some shaver from her. Then, i can see that she thanks that guy very politely as she keep on repeat "terima kasih abang, terima kasih ah" and at the same time, she put her stuffs on a table and arranging them.

Well, i thought the story ends and i can finally enjoyed my meal peacefully......and suddenly, i heard a voice again, saying "abang, nak beli stokin tak ? ada tebal punya, ada nipis punya.... kalau beli dua saya discount satu ringgit la " ........ That's wat happen after she arranged her stuffs and bring up some socks to show to the guy again. I din bother much wat's their conversation but at first that guy didn't wan to buy it and after some time, i see the guy went to the counter to pay his bill to change some small notes and then give the notes to that gal and deal, she got another business again. And again, she thanks him many times very politely. Wow~~ should i say that the gal really a potential sales girl or the man is too kind? Not to discriminate anything here, just that from my daily life, i seldom see sales person who come around the coffee shop to sell things can have their business done. Normally people wouldn't want to bother them also.

Okay, good day for the girl today as she sold two types of item to a guy. I continued to eat my char keuy teow happily as this time, the girl really keep all her stuffs in her beg properly and seems like she has no more items to sell anymore. After a while...........

"Abang, u ada dengar diamond water tak .............." and wat i see next is there is a brochure on her hand, showing to the same guy, and this time she is gonna promote diamond water to the guy........ My mum, my dad and me, three of us looking at each other with smiles, as we feel the situation is funny because their business never ends, come one and other. Haha....... is this a very good way to sell things? i have not much comment since everyone has their own ways, but i would really respect that girl's determination to keep on continue promoting her staffs one after another and she really promote one by one, after every cash deal and not once for all. I wonder whats the man's thinking at that moment, haha ......

Anyway, at last the man didn't wan to buy any of the diamond water product from her, and this time, she really bring her beg along and walk away.

Hard time is everywhere now and everyone is trying so hard to earn money, just like the girl just now, she really has a strong determination and she also spotted the right and potential customer to promote her things, otherwise there wont be business done one after another by her. Although her way was quite "interesting" to people around like us as our heart was thinking "her product come one after another, never ends and keep on promoting .... ", somehow she has proven that she still able to make two successful business from the same person. From my daily life, sales person like this really hard to get business done as normally people wouldn't want to bother them at all and their stuffs were things that we can even buy it in the supermarket. Especially can see a lot of foreigners bring around watches, pens, drawings etc .... i wonder how much they earn a day?

However, everyone is trying their way to earn money, that's why, as long as they are doing the right and legal things, we stil need to respect them and their jobs..... so leeleegurl, u also need to work hard and to get a job soon soon soon soon !!!

Saturday, May 16, 2009

三个爱情故事

昨天和今天听了三个爱情故事∶

第一:

有个女生,爱上了一个不该爱的人。她爱上了一个原本很不错的男生,但后来学会赌博而迷上了赌博,成了赌徒。曾经女生真的很爱他,为了帮他渡过难关而到处向人借钱,只为了让他还渡过难关。她甚至利用了另一个对她好的男生,向他借钱后瞒着那男生去为男友还债。可惜她男友从不珍惜,依然烂赌成性,甚至还让女生成了向大耳窿借债的债主,让女生活在生不如死的生活。女生从来不敢告诉家人,朋友,自己一个人默默承受这一切。可恶的男友,还一而再的威胁女生说,如果不帮他,他就会告诉女生的家人说女生到处欠债,这男生真的有够贱!女生的朋友开始发觉女生有心事,终于有一天,女生将所有事情都说出来了,而朋友们都一直劝说要这女生尽快离开那男生。最后,这女生也真的离开了那男友,女生为男友所背负的大耳窿债也好彩的解决了。。。。

第二∶

有个女生,本来拥有一个四年感情的男友,但女生一直嫌男友学历低,没上进心,而最后女生与四年的男友分手了。不久后,女生与另一个男生开始了一段新的恋情。可那新男友也不见得拥有比前男友还好的条件,但女生就是要和他一起。起初,女生一直觉得新男友很好,可以不介意他所有的缺点。但现在,日子久了,女生开始嫌东嫌西,更糟糕的是,女生还明知前男友余情未了,女生还继续跟前男友联络,趁男友不在时和前男友通电话。因为女生现在和男友同居,但男友因为工作,所以只在周末回来,所以女生还吩咐前男友说,千万别再周末打电话给她。前男友真的痴痴爱着女生,甚至认为说,如果有一天女生和男友分手了,而回到了这前男友的身边,这男生还真的愿意要回这女生。。。。。

第三∶

今天我的dear突然打电话来,在电话里头痛哭,告诉我说原来他还爱着她。。。。他和她曾经在一起很久了,但间中一直分分合合,最后,终于狠心分手了。后来,今天他才告诉我说,其实,之前是他提出分手的,原因是因为当女生今大学时,成绩一直不好,男生认为是他害了她,而且男生也希望女生变得更勇敢面对生活,更独立些,男生因此而狠心跟女生分手。当初的想法就是要让她变好。终于,现在女生成绩也不错了,思想也变得成熟了很多,但同时,她也有了一位要好的男友。男生知道此事后,很伤心很伤心,因为他从来就没有放弃她,他一心想让女生变得 更勇敢,更成熟,但如今,他的目的达成了,可是一直被蒙在谷里的女生却有了一位要好的男生。终于,男生也对女生说出了当初的原因,但被丢下的,就是一句“你很自私”。男生一直怨自己,认为自己真的很错,自做聪明的选了他认为是最对的一条路,但如今,目的达成了,可是在她身边照顾她的男生,不再是他了。。。。


以上的故事都是真人真事,都是身边朋友的故事。

爱情,真的没有谁对谁错。。。。。。。

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

高等人士 VS 低等人士 ??

今天塔巴士去上课,在巴士里面就遇到了三个人。。。。两男一女。
他们都是华人,两个男的是售票员,然后那女的不知是做什么的,只知道是他们的朋友(但感觉像是“亲蜜朋友”)

一上巴士,我就坐在那女生的后面,起初没什么的,只是觉得那女生很吵,因为她开“炸歌”很大声。过后,看到那两个售票员跟她很熟似的才知道他们是朋友。

渐渐的,看他们的举止,听他们的谈话,我就开始感到很不舒服。刚开始,我看到眼前的情景是,两个男生似乎想讨好那女生,而那女的,感觉就像个女皇,在那儿使唤两个男子。

然后,从他们的谈话中,都一直出现三字经,就连那女生,句句都是三字经,而且讲话粗声粗气的。我坐在他们的后面,我感到很尴尬,不知为甚么的,就觉得很尴尬,很不自在。

更糟糕的是,我过后才发觉,原来我不知不觉得摆了个臭脸,哈哈。。。。

我心里深处有种好像很看不起他们的感觉,我很茅盾的想,究竟是我太高档了?还是这种感觉是正常的?