After finished blogging bout the sales girl story just now, i suddenly recall another case while i was in KL.
Few months ago, there was a day i was rushing to uni to pass up my thesis. I need to pass by the LRT station so that i can take the cross over and get a taxi to the uni. Just when i reached the LRT station, there came a girl to talk to me saying that " hi, we are doing a recycle campaign............. " I stopped my foot step since the girl stop me with a paper on her hand, and she told me is for recycle campaign and therefore i just stop and take the paper that she passed to me. There was only simple message on the paper informing that the time, date and venue for the recycle campaign and some contact info so that we can call them to collect recycle stuffs. Then i told her, "ok thanks, anything i will contact this number " and just when i wanted to continue walking, she came and stop me again, trying to probe me with her questions, asked things like " how old are u ? u look very young, doesn't seems as your real age........ " " What you studying now ? wow....not bad ..... is good that u have the chance to study ...... " etc.... since i tot she was just asking me politely and so i answered her with patient. But after tat, she try to ask me to do some donation for the old folks home.
Only i realised that, from the beginning, everything was under her control. I mean, at first, she tried to stop me by giving me leaflet about recycle campaign, since i know that it has nothing to do with donation or sales or questionaire and whatever, i just stop and take the leaflet and go. And just when i started to go, she came to talk with me nicely and friendly as if i am a new fren of her and after she understood my background, she started to reveal her ownselve for what they are actually doing.
I didn't want to listen bout the donation stuffs since i was really in a rush and i tell her "is ok, thanks. ..... " but she never wan to give up and keep talking alot with me. I keep telling her that i am really in rush to pass up my thesis and i really need to go and then she keep saying that, please help to donate. I thought ok just to give her mayb one or two ringgit just to get rid of her since it was a donation and she did mention that it was a free-donation, u can donate any amount that u wanted to. So i tell her " Ok, i can donate any amount right ? " and she says yes and she shows me that they will give me a small gift, just as i am actually buying an item from them with any amount. I didn't know wat is inside the packet but just when i started to nod my head n say ok, she starts to show me their receipt, saying that normally ppl will donate this amount, and at the same time showed me the receipt with people donating "Rm 40, Rm 50 ..... etc " I was " wow........." and say i will donate a little onli, then she tells me that i need to donate at least Rm 10 . I was quite pissed off actually cz at first she told me i can donate any amount that i like, i asked "you said i can donate any amount right" and she start to say " yes, but they really need help, so small amount couldn't help much, at least RM 10 will really help out" and at the same time showing me that normally people will donate around RM 40, RM 50 ...... I dun like it, i dun like donation by this way because donation is by mean of charity, is doesn't matter how much i wan to give and supposed that they need to accept any amount that i wanted to give since it is called DONATION. It supposed to be by sincerity and not by forced.
I am really angry to waste the time with her and i straight away tell her, i dun wan, she still holding me back but i insisted that i dun wan to donate and walk away ...... Long long time before i really exposed to life at KL, i like to donate when i see beggars on the street or beggars that came to ask for money. It was because they wont ask for any amount, you can give any amount that you are able to just to help them out. But just when i started to live in KL, i found that beggars are all around the streets, initially i did give donation to the beggars but after that, no more, since i myself do not have so much money to keep on do donation, really sorry for that. Also, after my lifes in KL, only i know that there are lots of cheaters around actually. Some of the beggars are controlled by syndicate to beg for many for them. Some of the beggars are actually just a normal ppl who comes out to cheat money by using other's sympathy.
Well, not that i am discriminating people like this, just that all these are the facts, we can read from the newspaper everyday that how these people cheat other's money, how those syndicate asking for donation by fooling around human's sympathy. Therefore, normally when people come to ask for donation, i will ask for their contact so that next time when i really have the ability, i will go do the donation straight to their center. Not that i am acting cruel, just that there are really too many cheating cases around, and this is the only way that i can do to protect myself from being cheated.
Still, when i really see beggars that especially handicap beggars, i will somehow just give a very small amount of donation. Although there are stil lots of cheaters around, but i think there is still a part of people that really need help, and really have no choice but to beg for money. Anyway, people that are so healthy with their hands, legs, eyes, nose, mouth, ears, but stil come to beg, i will somehow ignore them because you should go find a proper job to earn your own money, but not in this way.
Sunday, June 28, 2009
A sales story today
Went to have char kuey teow with mum and dad just now and somehow saw an interesting scene in front of me....
I was eating my char kuey teow and suddenly i heard a gal talking loudly to an indian. Well, she is a chinese gal, who bring some stuffs to walk around and to sell around. She went to an indian guy who was eating with his fren and start to promote her stuffs. I didn't notice at first, until she suddenly keep repeating the same sentence very loudly saying tat "tak ada sample dah, ini saya baru buka punya......tengok, baru buka, tak ada sample dah....... " I guess, she was promoting a shaver to the indian guy and then he was asking for sample and she actually showed a sample which she open from the packet, but dunno wat happen, the indian guys stil wan to see more sample or wat.... i am not sure. Anyway, after some time, the guy finally buy some shaver from her. Then, i can see that she thanks that guy very politely as she keep on repeat "terima kasih abang, terima kasih ah" and at the same time, she put her stuffs on a table and arranging them.
Well, i thought the story ends and i can finally enjoyed my meal peacefully......and suddenly, i heard a voice again, saying "abang, nak beli stokin tak ? ada tebal punya, ada nipis punya.... kalau beli dua saya discount satu ringgit la " ........ That's wat happen after she arranged her stuffs and bring up some socks to show to the guy again. I din bother much wat's their conversation but at first that guy didn't wan to buy it and after some time, i see the guy went to the counter to pay his bill to change some small notes and then give the notes to that gal and deal, she got another business again. And again, she thanks him many times very politely. Wow~~ should i say that the gal really a potential sales girl or the man is too kind? Not to discriminate anything here, just that from my daily life, i seldom see sales person who come around the coffee shop to sell things can have their business done. Normally people wouldn't want to bother them also.
Okay, good day for the girl today as she sold two types of item to a guy. I continued to eat my char keuy teow happily as this time, the girl really keep all her stuffs in her beg properly and seems like she has no more items to sell anymore. After a while...........
"Abang, u ada dengar diamond water tak .............." and wat i see next is there is a brochure on her hand, showing to the same guy, and this time she is gonna promote diamond water to the guy........ My mum, my dad and me, three of us looking at each other with smiles, as we feel the situation is funny because their business never ends, come one and other. Haha....... is this a very good way to sell things? i have not much comment since everyone has their own ways, but i would really respect that girl's determination to keep on continue promoting her staffs one after another and she really promote one by one, after every cash deal and not once for all. I wonder whats the man's thinking at that moment, haha ......
Anyway, at last the man didn't wan to buy any of the diamond water product from her, and this time, she really bring her beg along and walk away.
Hard time is everywhere now and everyone is trying so hard to earn money, just like the girl just now, she really has a strong determination and she also spotted the right and potential customer to promote her things, otherwise there wont be business done one after another by her. Although her way was quite "interesting" to people around like us as our heart was thinking "her product come one after another, never ends and keep on promoting .... ", somehow she has proven that she still able to make two successful business from the same person. From my daily life, sales person like this really hard to get business done as normally people wouldn't want to bother them at all and their stuffs were things that we can even buy it in the supermarket. Especially can see a lot of foreigners bring around watches, pens, drawings etc .... i wonder how much they earn a day?
However, everyone is trying their way to earn money, that's why, as long as they are doing the right and legal things, we stil need to respect them and their jobs..... so leeleegurl, u also need to work hard and to get a job soon soon soon soon !!!
I was eating my char kuey teow and suddenly i heard a gal talking loudly to an indian. Well, she is a chinese gal, who bring some stuffs to walk around and to sell around. She went to an indian guy who was eating with his fren and start to promote her stuffs. I didn't notice at first, until she suddenly keep repeating the same sentence very loudly saying tat "tak ada sample dah, ini saya baru buka punya......tengok, baru buka, tak ada sample dah....... " I guess, she was promoting a shaver to the indian guy and then he was asking for sample and she actually showed a sample which she open from the packet, but dunno wat happen, the indian guys stil wan to see more sample or wat.... i am not sure. Anyway, after some time, the guy finally buy some shaver from her. Then, i can see that she thanks that guy very politely as she keep on repeat "terima kasih abang, terima kasih ah" and at the same time, she put her stuffs on a table and arranging them.
Well, i thought the story ends and i can finally enjoyed my meal peacefully......and suddenly, i heard a voice again, saying "abang, nak beli stokin tak ? ada tebal punya, ada nipis punya.... kalau beli dua saya discount satu ringgit la " ........ That's wat happen after she arranged her stuffs and bring up some socks to show to the guy again. I din bother much wat's their conversation but at first that guy didn't wan to buy it and after some time, i see the guy went to the counter to pay his bill to change some small notes and then give the notes to that gal and deal, she got another business again. And again, she thanks him many times very politely. Wow~~ should i say that the gal really a potential sales girl or the man is too kind? Not to discriminate anything here, just that from my daily life, i seldom see sales person who come around the coffee shop to sell things can have their business done. Normally people wouldn't want to bother them also.
Okay, good day for the girl today as she sold two types of item to a guy. I continued to eat my char keuy teow happily as this time, the girl really keep all her stuffs in her beg properly and seems like she has no more items to sell anymore. After a while...........
"Abang, u ada dengar diamond water tak .............." and wat i see next is there is a brochure on her hand, showing to the same guy, and this time she is gonna promote diamond water to the guy........ My mum, my dad and me, three of us looking at each other with smiles, as we feel the situation is funny because their business never ends, come one and other. Haha....... is this a very good way to sell things? i have not much comment since everyone has their own ways, but i would really respect that girl's determination to keep on continue promoting her staffs one after another and she really promote one by one, after every cash deal and not once for all. I wonder whats the man's thinking at that moment, haha ......
Anyway, at last the man didn't wan to buy any of the diamond water product from her, and this time, she really bring her beg along and walk away.
Hard time is everywhere now and everyone is trying so hard to earn money, just like the girl just now, she really has a strong determination and she also spotted the right and potential customer to promote her things, otherwise there wont be business done one after another by her. Although her way was quite "interesting" to people around like us as our heart was thinking "her product come one after another, never ends and keep on promoting .... ", somehow she has proven that she still able to make two successful business from the same person. From my daily life, sales person like this really hard to get business done as normally people wouldn't want to bother them at all and their stuffs were things that we can even buy it in the supermarket. Especially can see a lot of foreigners bring around watches, pens, drawings etc .... i wonder how much they earn a day?
However, everyone is trying their way to earn money, that's why, as long as they are doing the right and legal things, we stil need to respect them and their jobs..... so leeleegurl, u also need to work hard and to get a job soon soon soon soon !!!
Saturday, June 27, 2009
Good Bye Oil and Gas .......... [with heartache]
Jie Fu Ry ~~~ bad jie fu ry~~~ make me think of the oil and gas company's interview again.... make my heart so painful now.... arhhhh...... make me recall of how stupid am i to miss the good chance to enter this industry...... sobsob ...
I was waiting for good news from them, how i wish that the HR manager can call me for an interview.... because tat day i was just having a short interview with a head, but not yet a formal face to face interview with the HR, but ...... as i mentioned in my blog, i dun think that the person is satisfy with me from the short interview because i really failed to perform well....... and til now, no any news from them at all =(
Sigh ~~~ how i wish that there is a second chance. .... but, no matter how, i need to learn to let go now.....
Still.... i wish to have good news from them, wish me luck ~
I was waiting for good news from them, how i wish that the HR manager can call me for an interview.... because tat day i was just having a short interview with a head, but not yet a formal face to face interview with the HR, but ...... as i mentioned in my blog, i dun think that the person is satisfy with me from the short interview because i really failed to perform well....... and til now, no any news from them at all =(
Sigh ~~~ how i wish that there is a second chance. .... but, no matter how, i need to learn to let go now.....
Still.... i wish to have good news from them, wish me luck ~
Friday, June 26, 2009
天平座 (Libra) ~ This is mine and really accurate !
天平座的爱情>>
天平在爱情方面是一个为别人而活的星座。天平的被动更是让很多天平们错过了自己的真爱。天平不懂得拒绝，天平面对一个自己明明不喜欢的人，只要那人能主动积极一点，那天平是不会拒绝的，因为天平觉得拒绝会伤害你。为了不伤害你，天平只有牺牲自己。或者，天平会为你对他哪怕是一句关心的话而感动，就为了感谢你这句关心的话而和你在一起，因为天平永远都是追求平衡的，他认为你付出了哪怕是一句关心的话他就应该回报你，而不是真的因为爱你才和你在一起。(感动不等于爱)而且天平将'责任'二字看得太重，却又未认识到'责任'的真正精髓所在，以至于用了一种对自己极其残酷的方式给'责任'下着定义。
天平不爱对方，却要坚持对对方不离不弃。这是一个力求公平的天平的善良抉择，更是一个近乎愚蠢的抉择。这是天平的悲哀。只能说天平懂得负责任，却真的不理解 '责任'。可是懂得负责也变成了一种错误吗？天平认为责任比爱情重要，却未想过幸福也同样重要。你完全有理由责备天平，但是在你责备天平的同时可曾想过其实最可悲的正是天平。天平的要求真的不高，只是需要有人理解自己而已。但是，谁又能理解天平呢？
还有一点，天平在爱情方面确实是比较优柔寡断犹豫不决，这点必须承认。但是天平为什么会这样？因为天平想的事很多想的很远，天平觉得如果要爱一个人就要让对方快乐。这里说的'快乐 '包括很多，比如说有没有足够的经济能力来维持平时和你在一起时的花销，能不能让你每天都开心，自己的朋友和父母会接受你吗？你的父母朋友能接受自己吗？甚至可能会想到结婚以后你们孩子的模样漂亮吗？。。。。。等等，还有许多问题！你说天平能不犹豫吗？天平是出了名的12个星座最懒的，如果不是因为爱你天平根本懒的考虑那么多！如果天平一旦确定你就是他深爱的人并且确定了你们的恋爱关系以后，那么这时候天平追求完美的一面就展现出来了。
这时的天平满脑子就是想如何做到最好让你觉得自己是世界上最幸福的人。和天平恋爱过的人应该都知道这一点吧，刚和天平恋爱时的感觉简直太完美了，一些只有在电影和小说里面出现的情景会经常出现在你们身上，你会感觉现在的你真的就是世界上最幸福的人。这时的天平只要每天能看到深爱的人开心一笑就算付出在大的代价也愿意！由于刚恋爱时的天平表现的太完美了，以至于对方已经习惯了天平的这种完美表现，这在对方的心理已经是对天平的一种标准，所以天平只要稍稍表现的不够以前好，对方就会不习惯，就会觉得天平不爱她了！可是，这个世界上谁也不可能永远都做的这么好，天平也不能，虽然这时天平依然深爱着对方！对方的抱怨让天平觉得自己很委屈，自己付出了那么多对方却还不满足，还说自己不够好，所以天平就会觉得自己的付出不值得，到最后当然就只剩下分手!
在这里给所有天平朋友一个忠告，细水常流，平平淡淡才是真，不可能每一天都是完美的！烟花确实绚烂，但是注定短暂！
这里在特别说一下天平男。天平男花心吗？也许吧。但是所谓天平男的花心又和其他人不同，最原则性的不同在于天平男的花心跟爱情本身不关。所谓天平男的花心应该理解为是一种博爱。天平男认为世界上一切事物都是美好的，而女人更是这个美丽世界中的一个个艺术品。所以女人是要用来好好呵护的，与爱无关！这是天平男一种怜香惜玉的本质。这种本质是天平与生俱来的，是根深蒂固的。
天平真正意义上爱一个人时是和那种怜香惜玉的爱是有本质上的区别的。天平真正爱上一个人时，天平在心中会把爱人奉为自己的女神，不仅有爱，更多的是一种尊敬甚至崇拜！反过来说，天平面对自己真正深爱的人时内心会有那么一点小小的自卑。这里的自卑不是平时大家所说的因某种缺陷自卑，这种自卑是相对于'完美'二字来说的。大家也许会怀疑，自信又自恋的天平也会自卑？
是的，因为天平面对爱人的时候总希望自己做到完美，但是天平不明白完美只是一种传说一种境界，世界上没有人是完美的，天平也不能，所以这时天平就会产生自卑感。要求完美的天平对自己的不完美很不满意，觉得自己配不上心爱的人，所以很多天平宁愿选择放弃(其实天平在对方心目中天平已经很好了，只是当天平深爱一个人时鲜前昱＝羌？。但是放弃不等于不爱。天平对自己深爱的人是一辈子都不会忘的。放弃对天平来说另一种爱，天平会永远把深爱的人深深埋在心里的某个角落默默的为对方祈祷祝福！天平不是因为寂寞才会爱上一个人，天平是因为爱上一个人才寂寞！
天平对于自己内心真正的想法很少对人倾诉，因为天平深知沉默才能坚强。所以，除了天平自己之外没有人能真正了解天平，除非你来生有幸作为一个天平时用生命来体会一次。。。。。。不管是谁对谁错，一切的过错都由天平背负着，任由人们误会，任由人们无端的指责甚至漫骂，天平只是轻描淡写的一笑而过，在人前永远保持着优雅的微笑。一切是命中注定，无需多言，我们即然是天秤，太懂得去分析事情的轻与重，善与恶，真与假了。所以说对于本身也是一种负罪吧。因为都看透了。
对于真不真心，懂的人自然了解，不懂的人也不想再多说，因为我们是天秤，骄傲的天平！传说中有位骑士名叫天平，英俊，迷人，优雅，高贵。。。。。。黑夜中，西风吹过;白马上，骑士仰望星空;手中有剑，心中有爱，骑士正在为他心爱的人祈祷平安幸福！夜，还是那么黑。路，还有那么远。人，还那么寂寞！拍拍身上的灰尘，振作疲惫的精神，抚平疼痛的伤口，远方也许尽是坎坷路，骑士却仍然微笑着上路了.虽然心碎了无痕，依旧白马啸西风！
关于天平的友情和人际关系:>>
'朋友'二字对于天平有多重要是一般人不能理解的。这么说吧，天平把友情看的重要。因为天平是一个特别害怕孤独的星座，天平不会享受孤独。每个天平都有轻微的抑郁症，孤独就是诱发天平抑郁症的罪魁祸首！而抑郁症的最大特点就是厌世，这绝不是危言耸听，孤独就是能让天平产生厌世的感觉。天平是活在人群中的人，只有在人群中天平才能找到自我的位置发挥自我的价值。所以天平总是希望自己的朋友多些在多些。对于自己不喜欢的人，天平虽不愿把他当做朋友但还是希望对方能把自己当成朋友，但凡是天平认识的人天平绝不会轻易得罪。
为了维持这种和谐的关系，天平不的不圆滑一点虚伪一点，见人说人话见鬼说鬼话。其实天平真的很累的。绝大多数的时候，天平的朋友受到伤害和委屈了，天平总是第一时间出现在朋友旁边安慰和关心朋友，给朋友以最大的鼓励，但是当天平受伤时却很少得到这样的待遇。换句话说，天平的朋友看上去虽然很多，但是知心朋友却很少，能了解天平内心的更始微乎其微。天平对每个朋友都很好，而且都是一样的好，以至于大家都不知道天平对谁是真心真意对谁是虚情假意。天平一生都致力于创造一个自己心目中理想的和谐的美丽新世界，在那个世界中没有明争暗斗，没有尔虞我诈，大家都是好朋友，所有人都互相关心，互相照顾。总之，天平对朋友是最无私的，宁愿天下人负我，我不负天下人是天平对于与朋友关系的最好的一句话概括。如果你有朋友是天平的话，那么你应该感到幸运！
天平在爱情方面是一个为别人而活的星座。天平的被动更是让很多天平们错过了自己的真爱。天平不懂得拒绝，天平面对一个自己明明不喜欢的人，只要那人能主动积极一点，那天平是不会拒绝的，因为天平觉得拒绝会伤害你。为了不伤害你，天平只有牺牲自己。或者，天平会为你对他哪怕是一句关心的话而感动，就为了感谢你这句关心的话而和你在一起，因为天平永远都是追求平衡的，他认为你付出了哪怕是一句关心的话他就应该回报你，而不是真的因为爱你才和你在一起。(感动不等于爱)而且天平将'责任'二字看得太重，却又未认识到'责任'的真正精髓所在，以至于用了一种对自己极其残酷的方式给'责任'下着定义。
天平不爱对方，却要坚持对对方不离不弃。这是一个力求公平的天平的善良抉择，更是一个近乎愚蠢的抉择。这是天平的悲哀。只能说天平懂得负责任，却真的不理解 '责任'。可是懂得负责也变成了一种错误吗？天平认为责任比爱情重要，却未想过幸福也同样重要。你完全有理由责备天平，但是在你责备天平的同时可曾想过其实最可悲的正是天平。天平的要求真的不高，只是需要有人理解自己而已。但是，谁又能理解天平呢？
还有一点，天平在爱情方面确实是比较优柔寡断犹豫不决，这点必须承认。但是天平为什么会这样？因为天平想的事很多想的很远，天平觉得如果要爱一个人就要让对方快乐。这里说的'快乐 '包括很多，比如说有没有足够的经济能力来维持平时和你在一起时的花销，能不能让你每天都开心，自己的朋友和父母会接受你吗？你的父母朋友能接受自己吗？甚至可能会想到结婚以后你们孩子的模样漂亮吗？。。。。。等等，还有许多问题！你说天平能不犹豫吗？天平是出了名的12个星座最懒的，如果不是因为爱你天平根本懒的考虑那么多！如果天平一旦确定你就是他深爱的人并且确定了你们的恋爱关系以后，那么这时候天平追求完美的一面就展现出来了。
这时的天平满脑子就是想如何做到最好让你觉得自己是世界上最幸福的人。和天平恋爱过的人应该都知道这一点吧，刚和天平恋爱时的感觉简直太完美了，一些只有在电影和小说里面出现的情景会经常出现在你们身上，你会感觉现在的你真的就是世界上最幸福的人。这时的天平只要每天能看到深爱的人开心一笑就算付出在大的代价也愿意！由于刚恋爱时的天平表现的太完美了，以至于对方已经习惯了天平的这种完美表现，这在对方的心理已经是对天平的一种标准，所以天平只要稍稍表现的不够以前好，对方就会不习惯，就会觉得天平不爱她了！可是，这个世界上谁也不可能永远都做的这么好，天平也不能，虽然这时天平依然深爱着对方！对方的抱怨让天平觉得自己很委屈，自己付出了那么多对方却还不满足，还说自己不够好，所以天平就会觉得自己的付出不值得，到最后当然就只剩下分手!
在这里给所有天平朋友一个忠告，细水常流，平平淡淡才是真，不可能每一天都是完美的！烟花确实绚烂，但是注定短暂！
这里在特别说一下天平男。天平男花心吗？也许吧。但是所谓天平男的花心又和其他人不同，最原则性的不同在于天平男的花心跟爱情本身不关。所谓天平男的花心应该理解为是一种博爱。天平男认为世界上一切事物都是美好的，而女人更是这个美丽世界中的一个个艺术品。所以女人是要用来好好呵护的，与爱无关！这是天平男一种怜香惜玉的本质。这种本质是天平与生俱来的，是根深蒂固的。
天平真正意义上爱一个人时是和那种怜香惜玉的爱是有本质上的区别的。天平真正爱上一个人时，天平在心中会把爱人奉为自己的女神，不仅有爱，更多的是一种尊敬甚至崇拜！反过来说，天平面对自己真正深爱的人时内心会有那么一点小小的自卑。这里的自卑不是平时大家所说的因某种缺陷自卑，这种自卑是相对于'完美'二字来说的。大家也许会怀疑，自信又自恋的天平也会自卑？
是的，因为天平面对爱人的时候总希望自己做到完美，但是天平不明白完美只是一种传说一种境界，世界上没有人是完美的，天平也不能，所以这时天平就会产生自卑感。要求完美的天平对自己的不完美很不满意，觉得自己配不上心爱的人，所以很多天平宁愿选择放弃(其实天平在对方心目中天平已经很好了，只是当天平深爱一个人时鲜前昱＝羌？。但是放弃不等于不爱。天平对自己深爱的人是一辈子都不会忘的。放弃对天平来说另一种爱，天平会永远把深爱的人深深埋在心里的某个角落默默的为对方祈祷祝福！天平不是因为寂寞才会爱上一个人，天平是因为爱上一个人才寂寞！
天平对于自己内心真正的想法很少对人倾诉，因为天平深知沉默才能坚强。所以，除了天平自己之外没有人能真正了解天平，除非你来生有幸作为一个天平时用生命来体会一次。。。。。。不管是谁对谁错，一切的过错都由天平背负着，任由人们误会，任由人们无端的指责甚至漫骂，天平只是轻描淡写的一笑而过，在人前永远保持着优雅的微笑。一切是命中注定，无需多言，我们即然是天秤，太懂得去分析事情的轻与重，善与恶，真与假了。所以说对于本身也是一种负罪吧。因为都看透了。
对于真不真心，懂的人自然了解，不懂的人也不想再多说，因为我们是天秤，骄傲的天平！传说中有位骑士名叫天平，英俊，迷人，优雅，高贵。。。。。。黑夜中，西风吹过;白马上，骑士仰望星空;手中有剑，心中有爱，骑士正在为他心爱的人祈祷平安幸福！夜，还是那么黑。路，还有那么远。人，还那么寂寞！拍拍身上的灰尘，振作疲惫的精神，抚平疼痛的伤口，远方也许尽是坎坷路，骑士却仍然微笑着上路了.虽然心碎了无痕，依旧白马啸西风！
关于天平的友情和人际关系:>>
'朋友'二字对于天平有多重要是一般人不能理解的。这么说吧，天平把友情看的重要。因为天平是一个特别害怕孤独的星座，天平不会享受孤独。每个天平都有轻微的抑郁症，孤独就是诱发天平抑郁症的罪魁祸首！而抑郁症的最大特点就是厌世，这绝不是危言耸听，孤独就是能让天平产生厌世的感觉。天平是活在人群中的人，只有在人群中天平才能找到自我的位置发挥自我的价值。所以天平总是希望自己的朋友多些在多些。对于自己不喜欢的人，天平虽不愿把他当做朋友但还是希望对方能把自己当成朋友，但凡是天平认识的人天平绝不会轻易得罪。
为了维持这种和谐的关系，天平不的不圆滑一点虚伪一点，见人说人话见鬼说鬼话。其实天平真的很累的。绝大多数的时候，天平的朋友受到伤害和委屈了，天平总是第一时间出现在朋友旁边安慰和关心朋友，给朋友以最大的鼓励，但是当天平受伤时却很少得到这样的待遇。换句话说，天平的朋友看上去虽然很多，但是知心朋友却很少，能了解天平内心的更始微乎其微。天平对每个朋友都很好，而且都是一样的好，以至于大家都不知道天平对谁是真心真意对谁是虚情假意。天平一生都致力于创造一个自己心目中理想的和谐的美丽新世界，在那个世界中没有明争暗斗，没有尔虞我诈，大家都是好朋友，所有人都互相关心，互相照顾。总之，天平对朋友是最无私的，宁愿天下人负我，我不负天下人是天平对于与朋友关系的最好的一句话概括。如果你有朋友是天平的话，那么你应该感到幸运！
Not in a good mood today (v_v)
I got my first interview today, i got a call from their HR Manager to talk to me about my application, and then she pass the call to a Head to have a short interview with me. Well, i din do really well in the interview thru phone just now and i was quite nervous as this happen quite sudden.
Well, cut the story short, wat make me sad was that i got the wrong company name and tats lead me for a wrong company information ..... and i was so embarrassing during the interview just now as i asked them the wrong company name and end up i need to ask for the correct company name, OMG !
Actually this company was recommended by my ex-boss, and also helped out by my dad's fren, few days ago, my dad sent me an email, which is an email from his fren, saying tat my ex-boss's fren need a material engineer and he recommended me and asked me to call for job opportunity, but unfortunately, he mistaken the company's name, it should be *EV , but he type wrongly as *VE , which is also doing engineering field company, but with different industry. That's why i found the wrong info bout the company. After tat, when i do research on this company, onli i realised, wow, is an oil and gas industry company, is an industry field that many of us wil opt to go for and is really hard to get in, especially with my lousy result. I felt so wasted because if i could know the company correct information, then i wil ans more better just now.
Well, what passed is passed, just hope for a better day tomolo ~~ But, i am really grateful to everyone who helped me, especially my dad, and also my ex-boss who recommended me into that company. This really shows that, one who sincerely perform well in the company will get their pay one day.
I felt moody whole day, for not perform perfectly just now, although is just a phone interview, but ... really missed a good chance. However, i am feeling better now after sharing in this blog.
Wish to have a better chance tomolo ~ Gambatte !
[p/s: Shocking news today, Michael Jackson passed away, quite sad also.... wish him rest in peace]
Well, cut the story short, wat make me sad was that i got the wrong company name and tats lead me for a wrong company information ..... and i was so embarrassing during the interview just now as i asked them the wrong company name and end up i need to ask for the correct company name, OMG !
Actually this company was recommended by my ex-boss, and also helped out by my dad's fren, few days ago, my dad sent me an email, which is an email from his fren, saying tat my ex-boss's fren need a material engineer and he recommended me and asked me to call for job opportunity, but unfortunately, he mistaken the company's name, it should be *EV , but he type wrongly as *VE , which is also doing engineering field company, but with different industry. That's why i found the wrong info bout the company. After tat, when i do research on this company, onli i realised, wow, is an oil and gas industry company, is an industry field that many of us wil opt to go for and is really hard to get in, especially with my lousy result. I felt so wasted because if i could know the company correct information, then i wil ans more better just now.
Well, what passed is passed, just hope for a better day tomolo ~~ But, i am really grateful to everyone who helped me, especially my dad, and also my ex-boss who recommended me into that company. This really shows that, one who sincerely perform well in the company will get their pay one day.
I felt moody whole day, for not perform perfectly just now, although is just a phone interview, but ... really missed a good chance. However, i am feeling better now after sharing in this blog.
Wish to have a better chance tomolo ~ Gambatte !
[p/s: Shocking news today, Michael Jackson passed away, quite sad also.... wish him rest in peace]
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Good Morning ~~~!
Good morning world, lolx..... ^_^
This morning, woke up at 7am and then went out to the mini leisure park behind my house with my mum for exercise, again !!! But actually, today is onli the second day. Yesterday was the first day. At last, i have realized my dream, that is to wake up early in the morning for exercises, wahahaha (^O^)
Yesterday was the first day and everything went smooth, but one thing that make me really not fully enjoy was that there was a dog, keep running around the park, but i think the owner brings his dog along to exercise together, but, i was really in fear, i really had a nightmare with dogs since i had been attacked by dog around 4 years ago.
Around 4 years ago, there was a dog opposite my house, i am not sure whether the dog has its owner onot because sometime, i saw the dog just move around my opposite house and they never chase the dog out, but then, sometime i saw that the dog just moved around outside itself and they locked the door and not allow the dog to go in. What worse was that during raining days, the dog stil couldn't get into the house and just stand outside the house with the whole body wet. It was really a pity dog and therefore sometime we will feed the dog. One night, i went to feed to dog, i never know that u cant touch the dog's head when the dog is eating (REMEMBER THIS!) and i touched the dog's head when the dog is eating and wat happened next, the dog attacked me, and keep biting me. I fell on the street and being attacked by the dog, i was in a great fear, fear of the dog that keep on attacked me by its teeth, and also fear of cars coming around since i fell on the center of the road.
But one thing funny was that, my neighbour's cat, (which my mum hate the most, because it always came in to steal fish) saw wat happened and actually came to "help" me. That was a brave cat, it came to try "argue" with the dog to ask the dog to let go of me (i guess, hahaha). Finally, my brother came out with a stick to chase the dog and i was hurt on my hand and leg. The dog bit my leg and my hand was hurt because i scratched the road. After that i need to go to the clinic for vaccine and the scar on my hand stil with me until now =(
Since that day, i really fear of dog, i was actually a dog lover, but stil, i am scare. Oh! After tat attack, i was actually being attacked by dog again during my studies at KL. I was on the way home from my fren's house at Alpha condo and when i walked along the car park, there came few dogs, not few, is quite many actually, around 6++ of dogs suddenly run to me and keep on attacked a plastic bag that i am holding and the plastic bag was just a stack of paper inside,i dun understand what they are attacking for? I was really in fear and i shouted, i cant run cz i scare they wil chase me and at last, a van passed by and help me to chase the dog away. Oh my , i was really in fear, what had i done to dogs? I never eat dog's meat at all, y they keep coming to attack me?
Well, that was my experienced with "dog attack", which make me really having a nightmare with dogs now. That is why i din enjoy much for my exercise yesterday because i saw there is a dog keep on running around, and at time, there was a group of dogs coming around too.... I dare not jog a lot because i am afraid that the dogs might come chase me and attack me again. But luckily there are few exercise equipment for me to exercise.
Today, so lucky that there is onli one dog around, which is the same dog with its owner. But unfortunately i am having stomach ache so i din jog much, just walk along the track. However, i found that today i am acting like a psycho girl. I am acting over sensitive to everything around me, when i heard some noise behind, i wil keep looking back, when there was a crow suddenly flew over me, my reaction is so over (although i din scream, luckily...). Anyway, i am acting like a person who so afraid of everything around me, i guess, i am really really really too scare of dogs, especially big and wild dog.
Well, just would like to share that, is really feels good to exercise early in the morning, especially after exercise, back home to have a cold shower, wow!! The feeling is real great ! Friends, exercise more as this really keep our body healthy and for girls, exercise will make our complexion glows. So, spend at least 20minutes a day, and at least 3 times a week, to keep ur body healthy ! Be healthy ^_^
This morning, woke up at 7am and then went out to the mini leisure park behind my house with my mum for exercise, again !!! But actually, today is onli the second day. Yesterday was the first day. At last, i have realized my dream, that is to wake up early in the morning for exercises, wahahaha (^O^)
Yesterday was the first day and everything went smooth, but one thing that make me really not fully enjoy was that there was a dog, keep running around the park, but i think the owner brings his dog along to exercise together, but, i was really in fear, i really had a nightmare with dogs since i had been attacked by dog around 4 years ago.
Around 4 years ago, there was a dog opposite my house, i am not sure whether the dog has its owner onot because sometime, i saw the dog just move around my opposite house and they never chase the dog out, but then, sometime i saw that the dog just moved around outside itself and they locked the door and not allow the dog to go in. What worse was that during raining days, the dog stil couldn't get into the house and just stand outside the house with the whole body wet. It was really a pity dog and therefore sometime we will feed the dog. One night, i went to feed to dog, i never know that u cant touch the dog's head when the dog is eating (REMEMBER THIS!) and i touched the dog's head when the dog is eating and wat happened next, the dog attacked me, and keep biting me. I fell on the street and being attacked by the dog, i was in a great fear, fear of the dog that keep on attacked me by its teeth, and also fear of cars coming around since i fell on the center of the road.
But one thing funny was that, my neighbour's cat, (which my mum hate the most, because it always came in to steal fish) saw wat happened and actually came to "help" me. That was a brave cat, it came to try "argue" with the dog to ask the dog to let go of me (i guess, hahaha). Finally, my brother came out with a stick to chase the dog and i was hurt on my hand and leg. The dog bit my leg and my hand was hurt because i scratched the road. After that i need to go to the clinic for vaccine and the scar on my hand stil with me until now =(
Since that day, i really fear of dog, i was actually a dog lover, but stil, i am scare. Oh! After tat attack, i was actually being attacked by dog again during my studies at KL. I was on the way home from my fren's house at Alpha condo and when i walked along the car park, there came few dogs, not few, is quite many actually, around 6++ of dogs suddenly run to me and keep on attacked a plastic bag that i am holding and the plastic bag was just a stack of paper inside,i dun understand what they are attacking for? I was really in fear and i shouted, i cant run cz i scare they wil chase me and at last, a van passed by and help me to chase the dog away. Oh my , i was really in fear, what had i done to dogs? I never eat dog's meat at all, y they keep coming to attack me?
Well, that was my experienced with "dog attack", which make me really having a nightmare with dogs now. That is why i din enjoy much for my exercise yesterday because i saw there is a dog keep on running around, and at time, there was a group of dogs coming around too.... I dare not jog a lot because i am afraid that the dogs might come chase me and attack me again. But luckily there are few exercise equipment for me to exercise.
Today, so lucky that there is onli one dog around, which is the same dog with its owner. But unfortunately i am having stomach ache so i din jog much, just walk along the track. However, i found that today i am acting like a psycho girl. I am acting over sensitive to everything around me, when i heard some noise behind, i wil keep looking back, when there was a crow suddenly flew over me, my reaction is so over (although i din scream, luckily...). Anyway, i am acting like a person who so afraid of everything around me, i guess, i am really really really too scare of dogs, especially big and wild dog.
Well, just would like to share that, is really feels good to exercise early in the morning, especially after exercise, back home to have a cold shower, wow!! The feeling is real great ! Friends, exercise more as this really keep our body healthy and for girls, exercise will make our complexion glows. So, spend at least 20minutes a day, and at least 3 times a week, to keep ur body healthy ! Be healthy ^_^
Friday, June 19, 2009
毕业后的我
好啦，好久没写部落格了，原因是因为这几个星期我都一直去这去那的，而且加上网线不好，也使得我很没心情写部落格了。
算一算，原来我都距离毕业差不多一个月多的时间了，而且我要在这里慎重的宣布：我毕业了！！！ Yeah Y(^_^)Y 虽然成绩也没很好，但总算是有惊无险的毕业了 !
自毕业后。。让我想想我都做了什么，嗯。。就。。 回家，然后和朋友去 Pulau Perhentian 毕业旅行，然后回来KL和朋友在聚聚，然后又回家，后又回到了老家，Kemaman, 后又回家，然后又在回来KL,迎接我的宝贝啊圆来到KL找我聚聚。。。。差不多就是这样咯。。也玩了一个月没找工作，哈哈，毕竟读了十九年叻，总该休息一下。
无论如何，我的假期节目已宣告完毕，现在是认真找工的时候了。。。。
对了，我找工的径途都是从报纸，和网站，以下是几个可供参考的网站：
1）http://www.jobsdb.com.my/Malaysia/
２）http://www.star-jobs.com/
３）http://www.jobstreet.com.my/
4）http://www.jenjobs.com/
暂时也没任何interview，希望我可以快点找到工作吧，其实也不是很想做回我说读的这行，但没办法，我总该试试，好给父母一个交待吧。。。。。
好了，是时候要收拾了，因为迟写要回家了。有时间我再写写我的假期旅行吧 ^_^
对了，我的毕业典礼将在9/8/2009 (Sunday), 1.00pm, Wisma MCA.... 有空来出席吧，谢谢。。。
算一算，原来我都距离毕业差不多一个月多的时间了，而且我要在这里慎重的宣布：我毕业了！！！ Yeah Y(^_^)Y 虽然成绩也没很好，但总算是有惊无险的毕业了 !
自毕业后。。让我想想我都做了什么，嗯。。就。。 回家，然后和朋友去 Pulau Perhentian 毕业旅行，然后回来KL和朋友在聚聚，然后又回家，后又回到了老家，Kemaman, 后又回家，然后又在回来KL,迎接我的宝贝啊圆来到KL找我聚聚。。。。差不多就是这样咯。。也玩了一个月没找工作，哈哈，毕竟读了十九年叻，总该休息一下。
无论如何，我的假期节目已宣告完毕，现在是认真找工的时候了。。。。
对了，我找工的径途都是从报纸，和网站，以下是几个可供参考的网站：
1）http://www.jobsdb.com.my/Malaysia/
２）http://www.star-jobs.com/
３）http://www.jobstreet.com.my/
4）http://www.jenjobs.com/
暂时也没任何interview，希望我可以快点找到工作吧，其实也不是很想做回我说读的这行，但没办法，我总该试试，好给父母一个交待吧。。。。。
好了，是时候要收拾了，因为迟写要回家了。有时间我再写写我的假期旅行吧 ^_^
对了，我的毕业典礼将在9/8/2009 (Sunday), 1.00pm, Wisma MCA.... 有空来出席吧，谢谢。。。
写给啊鸿的。。。。
感谢我的一位红颜知己，正确来说是曾经的红颜知己，因为我们也好一段日子没好好联络了。
没想过我的部落格也有忠实粉丝，哈哈哈，谢谢你咯，啊鸿 ^_^ 虽然知道看看我的部落格应该也是为了你过过时间，但也已经足够了！！
这一篇是为你而写的，虽然很简短，但我真的想表达我的喜悦和感激，谢谢你的期待与支持咯 ^_^
没想过我的部落格也有忠实粉丝，哈哈哈，谢谢你咯，啊鸿 ^_^ 虽然知道看看我的部落格应该也是为了你过过时间，但也已经足够了！！
这一篇是为你而写的，虽然很简短，但我真的想表达我的喜悦和感激，谢谢你的期待与支持咯 ^_^
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